Ligeti's late work, for all its particular relationship to certain traditions, doesn't sound like anything that could have been composed earlier, at least not to my ears.
Well, I think the Hölderlin choruses and most of the Viola Sonata do, but I don't think anyone claimed that any of the music we're talking about sounds so close to its models that one could mistake it for them (or for something contemporary with them), did they? That's certainly not what I was claiming about Paul McCartney - or about James Dillon for that matter.
Incidentally, I think I might have muddied the waters slightly by bringing in James Dillon, but to answer your earlier question:
So how do you see Dillon's notion of 'classical music', and how do you see McCartney's?
I think they both think of it as 'something that grown-ups do'.