Much of the inverted snobbery that for instance I faced at school about my musical taste is rooted in fear and that all too common tendency to decry that which you don’t “get”.
It would also be enormously easy for someone to look at this discussion and brand everyone involved as a music snob, based on the fact that they understood about every 7th word. It can simply be a word that gets thrown at people to make them shut up and stop scaring people, essentially.
Sorry to use personal experience again - bulletin boards are places to spout wild all-embracing theories - but I noticed, particularly when teaching grade 5 theory and beyond, how easy it is to subvert the ‘3 chord brigade’ who infest Western pop music. After a while most people, when exposed to harmonically more complex material - less conservative/conventional music - start to find the F, G, C progression boring. It helps when they know what a triad is, have a bit of ear training, and can follow a score (stuff which takes a few weeks to teach). They then listen to music sold by EMI and think ‘Hmmmm, what’s the point?’ or ‘For God’s sake play a 7th or a 9th, or get your arse into the relative minor! Jeesh!’ The become impatient and critical of Victora Beckham. Does anyone want to argue that's a bad thing?
So the three chord tradition, embedded in the music which drives Western youth culture, only works if Western youth is kept musically ignorant. That helps explain why my pop group friends - who were making large sums of money from the culture - became so excited when I criticised it: deep down they know they’re producing conservative tripe which only works if their audience is kept ignorant, which is a double irony for a leftist band.
They remind me of other musical authoritarians in history - Plato, medieval Popes, Stalin - who recognised the power of music and, for political or financial reasons, wished to keep the proles ignorant.
Of course, it’s harder to criticise snobbery in pop music compared to classical. Everyone can recognise a classical music snob at twenty paces. But pop music snobs can also be dealt with, and it’s quite funny because they’re not used to being challenged to defend the music they serve up, and may gobble like turkeys when asked a polite question!
I think of 'snob' is one of those 'own goal' words that bounce back and damage the argument of the user rather than the supposed recipient. They are therefore best kept to be used about oneself, as and when appropriate, rather than other people.
Others include 'bigoted', 'knee-jerk reaction', 'narrow-minded', 'unthinking', 'parroting', 'shallow' ... that sort of thing. But oddly it's always other people they seem to apply to.
Trouble is, the word ‘snob’ is very much part of the English language, especially in poor old Britain with its history of class politics. People are sensitive about snobbery. It winds them up. They don’t like others looking down their noses at them, using music as a stick to beat them with. You just have to consider the history of British comedy to see how embedded it is in British culture - the popular tradition of laughing at snobs. So it’s a tricky word to banish.