Impossible to reach a final decision on Op 130 with Grosse Fuge but I'd probably opt for the Complete String Quartets by The Lindsays - a real bargain set if you shop around - as they also provide an alternative finale to Op 130.
I listen to many recordings, from my shelves, with great affection as they have been collected over several decades and I remember the special frisson when I budgeted for a complete LP box set of the Busch Quartet recordings on 'direct metal remastering', in the early 80s, and Sally from Direction/Caruso & Co (of blessed memory) rang me to say they were available for collection. They were remastered by EMI, from a pre-war set, on HMV Treasury.
The Budapest String Quartet grosse fuge (from their first set in the 1950's) is also a treasure. Alongside this, I'd place the Late String Quartets by The Hollywood String Quartet, beautifully transferred by Testament in 1996. Tully Potter's liner notes add:
"Most important of all, they have that essential Beethovenian quality which can only
be described as 'virtuosity humbling itself'. The composer who makes the sternest
demands, can be the cruellest of all to those who indulge in any kind of display."
If pressed to leave my home at a few minutes notice, I'd opt for the Lindsay recordings and, when nobody was looking, would add the 7CD 1927-32 HMV 'Potted' Ring cycle into my bag, too.