This lady, the widow of Ralph Vaughan Williams, has died at the age of 96. I thought you might wish to see her obituary in the Telegraph.
The couple married in February 1953, when Ralph was 80 and Ursula was 41. Both had been married before. The age difference meant that they had been married for only five and a half years when RVW died in August 1958.
In 2002 UVW described widowhood as the dreariest club in the world. It seems poignant that she still felt it so keenly after 44 years.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2007/10/25/db2501.xmlIan.