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TimR-J
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« on: 12:04:38, 25-07-2007 »

A spin-off from the dreams thread, where it turns out several of us suffer from vertigo.

Vertigo is a weird one (as Hitchcock knew well), since it is absolutely irrational and seems to stem from a variety of things. For me, looking up is almost as bad as looking down (although these may be two different phobias?). I've been up plenty of tall buildings in my life (including the Empire State and the CN Tower, no slouches heightwise), and at the top I generally feel pretty comfortable. Unless I look directly down (and in the CN Tower they have windows around the central column that look straight down to the ground - I tried that and my legs literally collapsed), I'm OK at the top of a building, as long as I'm not too close to the edge. But looking up, or travelling up is horrible. I loved being up the Empire State, for example, but queuing for the lift, and counting those 80+ floors on the way up was very scary.

Even worse was walking down stairs a few flights on the way out (from the very top to the 80th floor). At times like that I lose all confidence in the building, physics, my legs, and my psychological ability not to throw myself over the bannisters just for the hell of it.
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« Reply #1 on: 12:47:39, 25-07-2007 »

I am not sure if this counts really, but I hate balloons. I have this fear of the pop!

My daughters loved them when they were small and collected dozens of blown up balloons until there was no room for them all. So one day I got 2 pins, and in Samurai fashion- one pin in each hand  I popped them all - shouting at the same time . I am just glad the neighbours didn't hear me!! ( well they didn't admit they had anyway!!)

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« Reply #2 on: 12:53:31, 25-07-2007 »

Vertigo: That's well described, Tim. It certainly is irrational. For example, although I detest flying for all kinds of other reasons, I never get any vertigo on a plane - and, in fact, feel calmer if I'm in a window seat and can look out.

But it's very dibilitating. The 'looking up' thing can be particularly bad for me in large cavernous buildings. RAH? Ok if I'm near ground level and force myself not to look up, but hopeless if I'm further up and cannot but be aware of the magnitude of the place. Ditto cathedrals etc. - nearly fainted in St. Paul's recently. So that's a large chunk of historical (and other) architecture off limits. Bah.  Angry
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« Reply #3 on: 12:56:56, 25-07-2007 »

TimR,

Heights? Gulp. Faint. I wasn`t like this was I was younger. When I was at college I regularly used to climb up to the top of St Paul`s via the Whispering Gallery (was I insane? and wander around the outside. No chance that I could do that now. And as for looking up at a tall building, you`re right, it is worse than looking down. Just. It`s definitely got worse as I`ve got older. Walking either up or down steps that have a gap inbetween them is also a problem. I suppose I could close my eyes but then I`d probably fall up them Grin

Another phobia that`s got worse over the years is planes (think I`ve mentioned this on another thread somewhere), specifically the ones feature in fly pasts at major events. The wretched things always fly back to base over my house and I end up under the table with the cats.  That phobia now seems to have extended to include helicopters. I was walking home the other day when I heard one but couldn`t see it. By the time the damn thing was overhead, I was panicking and practically hurled myself into a hydranga bush. I have no idea where that phobia originated from.
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« Reply #4 on: 13:07:16, 25-07-2007 »

Ho!  I suffered from vertigo when I was young but grew out of it in my thirties.  Nowadays, my phobias seem to be involved with sound.  I have ceased to watch BBC News 24 because the "beeping and percussive" background intro drove me mad.  It's now worse as the "percussive" background now continues as the presenters deliver details of the headlines.  To me that, in particular, is discourteous not only to to the presenters but to the viewers as well.  All electric guitars and pop percussion are my main hate phobias together with unnecessarily loud "background" music.
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« Reply #5 on: 13:13:02, 25-07-2007 »

Nothin' scares me  !!

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« Reply #6 on: 13:17:20, 25-07-2007 »

Nothin' scares me  !!



Blimey Jan, you`ve reminded me of my Dentist Phobia. S-H-R-I-E-K!!!
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« Reply #7 on: 13:33:01, 25-07-2007 »

I am not sure if this counts really, but I hate balloons. I have this fear of the pop!


That counts, A! My mother has that too, and not just balloons but anything with the potential for unexpected bangs. Every November 5th she draws all the curtains and turns on every TV, radio and other sound-producing device she can find, full volume. She says it dates from when she was young and her brother locked her in the cellar with three lighted firecrackers.  Shocked
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« Reply #8 on: 13:39:10, 25-07-2007 »

Walking either up or down steps that have a gap inbetween them is also a problem.

*Shudder*
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« Reply #9 on: 13:46:10, 25-07-2007 »

Walking either up or down steps that have a gap inbetween them is also a problem.

*Shudder*

Ah, glad it`s not just me, Tim,  I`ve had some pretty funny looks from people in the past.  And as for escalators with glass sides ..... When Selfridges replaced theirs with these see-through horrors I couldn`t make it beyond the first floor. Then of course I had to come back down ......  Never been back since Angry And then there are people who think glass elavators are fun!!!???  Guess who has no intention of going on the London Eye? Grin
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« Reply #10 on: 13:47:39, 25-07-2007 »

Anyone else suffer from what I'd call 'sympathetic' vertigo? The best example I can think of is those wonderful photographs of construction workers having a lunch break, sitting on a metal joist being dangled by a crane during the building of the Empire State Building - with nothing at all beneath them for hundreds and hundreds of feet!!!! I just can't look at those photos anymore without feeling extreme panic.
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TimR-J
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« Reply #11 on: 13:50:47, 25-07-2007 »

Guess who has no intention of going on the London Eye? Grin

Yeah, I've somehow avoided that too ("weather's not good today", "queues will be too long", etc Cheesy)
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« Reply #12 on: 13:59:17, 25-07-2007 »

Another phobia that`s got worse over the years is planes (think I`ve mentioned this on another thread somewhere), specifically the ones feature in fly pasts at major events. The wretched things always fly back to base over my house and I end up under the table with the cats.  That phobia now seems to have extended to include helicopters. I was walking home the other day when I heard one but couldn`t see it. By the time the damn thing was overhead, I was panicking and practically hurled myself into a hydranga bush. I have no idea where that phobia originated from.
I used to live quite close to a major military air base, and sometimes laying in bed at night listening to low-flying aircraft passing overhead was quite unnerving. Statistically they may be safer than houses, but nobody wants to be a statistic.
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« Reply #13 on: 14:00:30, 25-07-2007 »

Anyone else suffer from what I'd call 'sympathetic' vertigo? The best example I can think of is those wonderful photographs of construction workers having a lunch break, sitting on a metal joist being dangled by a crane during the building of the Empire State Building - with nothing at all beneath them for hundreds and hundreds of feet!!!! I just can't look at those photos anymore without feeling extreme panic.

Bit small, but I'm thinking of this one...

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« Reply #14 on: 14:10:31, 25-07-2007 »

All electric guitars and pop percussion are my main hate phobias together with unnecessarily loud "background" music.
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