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John W
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« Reply #15 on: 18:05:49, 13-10-2007 »

All these generous comments to Michael are well-deserved.

I've worked with Michael since day 1 and always did what I've thought best for the community that is R3ok. I have always thought that to allow promotion of political thought here would destroy a forum that was set up initially as a sanctuary for Radio 3 listeners interested in discussing the music and arts in the R3 schedule but to also have fun. If the intellectuals were unhappy with the restrictions imposed by the BBC messageoards then they should have set up M&S in February, but they instead decided to join R3ok.

I'm hoping I can persuade Michael to stay - I certainly want to stay on. With the creation of the M&S forum the way is open for the two forums to co-exist and to share; despite the similar structures to the forums they have very different agendas. R3ok is named R3ok  because the members enjoy Radio 3.

I want to stay on because I want to preserve a friendly community free from intimidation, free from any postings with a real political agenda.

If Michael consents then the forum could benefit from additional moderators. I actually think there is not much for moderators to do here, now that M&S is set up, but from the many PMs I feel that the remaining membership would welcome additions to the moderation team, possibly anonymous as is the case at other forums.

So, these are my thoughts and comment would be most welcome.

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« Reply #16 on: 18:38:03, 13-10-2007 »

Dear Michael,

I cannot stress enough to you two things:

a) we owe you a real debt for what you did for us all in February, and you only need to see how this forum has blossomed to appreciate that fact. You gave us a lifeline, and provided something that the old R3 board had never done - we became a real family and never at any time felt that we were being suppressed or censored - moderation was minimal and delicate.

b) this forum will simply not be the same without you. I strongly urge you, Michael, to stay in charge and hold us all together. As John has suggested, some changes will be needed in the management/moderation procedures, but nothing that cannot be achieved easily. This forum is (to be honest) just too bloody good to die out overnight. Without your own impetus, that is what it is likely to do. PLEASE don't let it - we are your friends, and we are WITH you.

Dear John,

I hope that you will persuade Michael to stay and help him to put aside the real disappointments of the last week. They are now meaningless and those who created them have found another outlet for what they wanted. We (together with you and Michael) wish them well, and must now try to get on with what this forum was originally set up to achieve: a meaningful and friendly interaction of R3 followers.

(I have an uncanny confidence that, despite all the hurt that has been experienced, this forum is simply too PRECIOUS to die!)

Best to you both (with very sincere thanks)

Baz
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« Reply #17 on: 18:51:27, 13-10-2007 »

This is my first post since things 'kicked off' and while I still don't feel comfortable posting here again right now, I wanted to echo the thanks being given to Michael.
From the very beginning, there were some nasty suspicions aimed at your motives for starting these boards but I think that you showed categorically that they were ludicrous at best.
Best wishes for everything that you do in the future, and if you hand over your mantle, make sure you stay registered and in touch with the forum!
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« Reply #18 on: 19:24:25, 13-10-2007 »


From the very beginning, there were some nasty suspicions aimed at your motives for starting these boards but I think that you showed categorically that they were ludicrous at best.


I don't think Michael's motives were ludicrous, I know for certain that....... oh you mean the suspicions  Wink

Wish this place would cheer up  Sad

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« Reply #19 on: 19:42:33, 13-10-2007 »

I would like to add my backing for that just posted by Baz. Excellently put, Baz. A very accurate reflection of how this MB has been viewed by many of us. I don`t believe that the problem has been with  your moderation style, Michael, as IGI so succintly indicated.

John, no amount of smilies in your posts is going to `cheer up` this place. Can you not read the mood of this MB?
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« Reply #20 on: 19:51:54, 13-10-2007 »

This board can cheer up Mort! There are just a few postings that sour it - and (sorry Tony!) message #14 for example is simply defeatist and unhelpful. I for one do not see how Michael has "made the right" decision (necessarily). If Michael wishes to step down, that is one thing (a very personal and fully-respected decision). But I do not think it is in any way "inevitable" or "desirable". I cannot think of a single member of this forum who could have done a better job than Michael.

The whole point of encountering difficulties is learning how to cope with them and move on. Nothing but NOTHING that has happened on this MB is (in my view) a resigning or stepping-down issue. The way forward is to start from what we have, and refine/improve it (not to bin it or reject it).

I look forward enormously to Michael (with John's support, and that of others, as necessary) continuing to manage the MB that HE created, and that we all so much cherish and admire.

Now SMILE you dreary lot!

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« Reply #21 on: 19:54:00, 13-10-2007 »

I would just like to say how I agree with what Baz has said.

I do hope you won't leave the board Michael and John. This board has been wonderful, we have all made lots of friends here... we know who loves Britten, who plays which instrument, who goes to opera..who composes, who knows a heck of a lot about certain musical topics... and even who loves Janine Jansen.!!

The coffee room has been wonderful, silly yes, but fun. Those of us who spent a lot of time there also read and contributed to the serious threads because we are all together is  our love for classical music. We have communicated to each other and enjoyed the friendships that have blossomed.

In the morning the first thing I do is to log on to see who is around, and the last thing at night I also go on to see what is happening, it will be a sad day if this goes, a really sad day .

So please John and Michael , keep this running. You are appreciated and those of us who are left here are still a bit bemused as to what exactly happened last week.

Here is a smiley or two John... we are trying! Grin Grin Grin

A

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« Reply #22 on: 20:03:23, 13-10-2007 »

Hi,

I haven't heard back from Michael so don't know where we stand right now. Thank you to all for messages. I could be here all night answering PMs but I really MUST show my face down the local pub tonight (a social thing on) so bye for now.


John W
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« Reply #23 on: 20:13:13, 13-10-2007 »

we know who loves Britten


Now, I wonder.....

I'm "listening" (sort of) to quite a bit of him at this moment - only problem is, it's in an opera by James MacMillan  Smiley .

I echo all A's sentiments.
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« Reply #24 on: 20:21:16, 13-10-2007 »

I think all members, users and viewers of this board owe a profound debt of gratitude to Michael and John for rescuing this community from the impossible situation that the BBC boards left us in around February. Without their good work, this community would have be lost. These boards have largely been self-regulatory, with quite a low level of moderation involved, and that is a tribute to all involved as well.

I can understand how some matters became quite heated, but now everyone has had their say, and provision has been made elsewhere for discussions that need further, deeper or more combative exchange, we should strive to continue with the R3-related (and non-related but still of interest) discussions which this community obviously wants.

It would be a pity if the original moderators/owners left at this point; what would be preferable would be a re-definition or reassertion of the house rules and the moderation rules, which could then provide the clarity required now that the board has progressed since its beginnings. I would suggest a working party of interested members to work with the moderation team to achieve this.

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« Reply #25 on: 20:41:58, 13-10-2007 »

Obviously what is needed is some kind of moderation system where threads,topics are voted off, and a value set i.e. 3 users required to vote things off etc, i think a major problem is the amount of time required to moderate.

Perhaps things would be easier if more people are given moderator status ?
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« Reply #26 on: 21:06:25, 13-10-2007 »

Like everyone else here I would like r3ok to continue. If Michael feels that he can no longer continue as owner of the forum is there any way that ownership can be transferred? I don't think that I would be particularly good as a moderator (the phrase "chocolate teapot" springs to mind) but am willing if the opportunity is offered.
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« Reply #27 on: 21:45:51, 13-10-2007 »

(I would have preferred to wait a few days before saying anything here, but I'm about to be away for a while so I'd better get this in now.)

I was lurking on the BBC site during the collapse in February, and even though it took me a while to get actively involved here, I'd like to add my thanks to those who set up this alternative.  It was needed, and has grown into quite a special community.

But all this talk of "moving on" sits very badly with me.  It simply is not possible to "move on" when those who have been affronted (either personally or as a matter of principle) have had no attempt at explanation or rapprochement.  Or any attempt at clarifying what the problem was in such a way that would be unambiguous in the future.

As far as I can see, closing certain threads and encouraging certain posters to leave is the result of a mod's arbitrary dislike of certain topics (topics that were related to music, I would add).  It seems that "intellectuals" who engage in high-pitched, passionate arguments have been confused with "advocates" or "proselytisers" who would try to impose a certain view.  I don't think any of the people here, no matter how entrenched their own viewpoints, have posted in such an evangelical way.

No amount of self-effacing smilies or referring to one's self as a "dummy" in an attempt to charm and lighten up is going to solve this.  Censorship is a serious issue, and those of us who see it that way ought to be taken seriously.

And by the way, I don't think the M&S board is trying to replace or steal traffic from this one.  A number of us are still posting on both, and no one on either board is discouraging us from doing so.  Saying things like that only hardens divisions, and also does little to solve this.

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« Reply #28 on: 21:48:58, 13-10-2007 »

This board can cheer up Mort! There are just a few postings that sour it - and (sorry Tony!) message #14 for example is simply defeatist and unhelpful. I for one do not see how Michael has "made the right" decision (necessarily).

To make myself clearer: the thing about offering no thanks was because we had a mini crisis a few months ago when it looked as though this board might have to close. (I can't find the thread - I think it's been moved - but it gave rise to a thread on what rules there should be.) I, as well as others, gave my thanks to Michael for what he had done as he sounded quite fed up and I was told by him, a little ungraciously I thought, that he didn't want them. But I'm not bothered and if it sounds as though I'm sulking, I'm sorry. Please believe me it's water under the bridge.

If I felt bad about what happened a week ago and if I disliked any of the moderators or owner, I would have followed others on to the Music & Society board and left this one behind. The only thing I particularly disagree with is the shutting down of the board last Monday morning, but that's not a resigning matter. No, the reason I think Michael should move on is for his own sake. He seems unhappy, fed up, and not for the first time, and sometimes you have to know when to let go. That's not an admission of defeat, just the right thing to do.
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« Reply #29 on: 21:53:00, 13-10-2007 »

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A pity strina. This board is , or was , fun and lots of friends here got on well.
If you can't smile it is an even sadder place.

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