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« Reply #300 on: 23:32:26, 21-08-2007 » |
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I've told you Mort - take a tip from Milly and give him the heave-ho! You are worth much better than this.
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We pass this way but once. This is not a rehearsal!
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« Reply #301 on: 00:22:49, 22-08-2007 » |
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Whatever happens Morticiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa you know you've got some bonzer mates here.
And don't let him take you for granted.
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« Reply #302 on: 08:05:15, 22-08-2007 » |
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Some times people choose not to make drastic decision because it is too painful. Each one decides individually. However, if decision is not made there is no possibility to meet some one else. Healing comes after pain.
On the other hand if one doesn't want changes it is safer to keep things the same, have the same disappointments, the same pain.
On the other hand if one do nothing relationship still comes to its destination. The most important is to support yourself, be your own friend, do good things to yourself, go to things you likd and do things you like and try to make yourself happy and not to upset yourself with negative thoughts too much. Some times (often) things don't go the way we want them to. We all have many disappointments.
My friend wanted to have a baby. She could not have it and they adopted a girl after long search. Now my friend can see how boring (routine) life it is. What I want to say is: one should not want things too much because often they are not as wonderful. After this post I can be a Buddhist.
We all love you, Morticiaa. Things will be better after a while.
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« Reply #303 on: 09:44:21, 22-08-2007 » |
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Hang in there Morticia, we love you...
do what is best for you xxx Jan xxx
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« Reply #304 on: 10:35:34, 22-08-2007 » |
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Mort....
How's things this morning?
A xx
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« Reply #305 on: 10:48:31, 22-08-2007 » |
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And, indeed, at Glocca Morra, Mort. Must consult my dispensary again!  Bws, Stanley |
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« Reply #306 on: 11:21:27, 22-08-2007 » |
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Having a bit of a slump right now.
Had a long conversation with C yesterday which was fine but left me feeling down afterwards. It seems so natural and easy to talk to her (and vice versa) and it feels like it would be so easy to slide back into the relationship but after the call is over there's nothing. We're back to radio silence and I'm convinced that she's not doing very well, even though I can't really remember anything that would give me that idea. I want to ring her just to say 'are you ok?' but I know that's a bad idea. I'm seeing her a week on Friday at a wedding we're singing for so I know I should just drop it until then, get on with things and stop obsessing, but the brain cuts in and tries to take over...
Mort - I know exactly what you mean by `How can all the good stuff just go down the pan like this?` That's exactly what I felt at the time, and to be honest, I still think it now. I suppose we should just be happy for the good times that we had without trying to hold on to them but I don't know if you can control something like that.
I've spent the last two years looking forward to the time when I finished my PhD and finally we could be together, only to find that she doesn't want me by her side. In my darker moments it feels like a massive waste of time, energy, happiness and money. But on the good side, I got my first (almost) eight-hour sleep for about three months last night.
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« Reply #307 on: 11:46:39, 22-08-2007 » |
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Right. I'm going for a walk. The sun is shining so I shall see if I can't walk off some of my frustration.
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« Reply #308 on: 11:48:36, 22-08-2007 » |
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Right. I'm going for a walk. The sun is shining so I shall see if I can't walk off some of my frustration.
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« Reply #309 on: 11:51:59, 22-08-2007 » |
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« Reply #310 on: 12:05:28, 22-08-2007 » |
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The city is a process which always veers away from the form envisaged and desired, ... whose revenge upon its architects and planners undoes every dream of mastery. It is [also] one of the sites where Dasein is assigned the impossible task of putting right what can never be put right. - Rob Lapsley
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« Reply #311 on: 13:03:20, 22-08-2007 » |
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If the relationship had reached the end of its natural life, then the time has come to deal with the loss, heal and move on. However long it takes. But what you say suggests that, at least for you, it hadn't reached that point. If there is something between you that needs to be aired, I hope that you both find a time, and a way that is mutually acceptable. Bridges have to be built from both sides. And they can only be dismantled safely from both sides.
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« Reply #312 on: 13:11:29, 22-08-2007 » |
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A doormat writes. Dear All, thank you so much for your time and thoughts. many of which reflect my own gut feeling of what has to be done. Counselling is not an option, things have gone too far for that, I feel. A, I looked at your `check list` and the results were rather sobering. I guess what I`m doing is trying to keep alive something that ceased to be rather a while ago, and in doing that I`m only wounding myself. Time to bite the bullet. Oh bugler. Never liked the Rolling Stones anyway  |
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« Reply #313 on: 13:55:17, 22-08-2007 » |
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« Reply #314 on: 14:15:20, 22-08-2007 » |
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